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Project Job Search - September 2008

Part of our success in life comes from goals and dreams. Those childhood dreams of becoming a scientist, a policeman, a doctor and a lawyer are just part of the process of getting us there, however it is not that ultimate goal that is the drive for our success. It is actually some of the short term and more realistic goals that eventually get us to where we want to be.

A standard question in a job interview has something to do with short term goals. "Where do you see yourself in the next five years?" - "What do you expect to achieve in the next 12 months?" These questions are tricky, because if you aim too high, you risk being seen as too ambitious and is the all talk no action type. If you aim too low, then you have no drive, and no intention of working there anyway. An important part of this question is knowing where you stand, and letting the interviewers know that you have the capability to having a dream and achieving it with realistic goals.


Setting goals are important because if you do not set goals you end up going all over the place. No one turns into the CEO of a company over night. One step at a time you need to create your own profile, your own network of people, a good knowledge of the overall business and further education. Plan what you need into milestones, and achieve them one by one. This not only gives you the drive you need to keep going, it also gives you a change to evaluate from an early point onwards, whether your ultimate goal really is - what you want to do. Sometimes half way down the track you might realise you would like to take a different direction than you previously planned, then it's not too late to back out and still being able to use any of the skills you have obtained so far in the process to contribute to the next set of dreams.


Having such goal setting habits also keep you challenged, and this also shows the employer that you are driven by challenges which will encourage them to progressively give you more challenging work and that is how everyone gains their knowledge and experience. If nothing new comes your way, you are sure to stay in the same job, doing the same old thing after ten years and have no chance of a promotion or a change of job role.
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A new job is like a new marriage

September 19th 2008 01:03
I remember my career adviser at uni used to compare job searching to dating, and that starting a new job is like starting a new marriage.

Maybe that's why I am a little afraid of getting married.

If you think about it, it makes sense. The first day at your job is exciting but scary. You are finally somebody, with a title, like "Support Engineer" or "Registered Nurse" just like getting the Mrs in front of your name (ok, so not as much impact on guys here) and you finally have a responsibility. You still have lots to learn and often learn things by trial and error and getting into bit trouble first before you learn your lesson.

You have this relationship with your boss where you still don't know where the water gets too deep, and also need to test out the personalities of your colleagues. Will you get along with them? Who is the nice one in the pack and who might just back stab you one day?

The honeymoon period is almost always the happiest yet the hardest. You are not quite yourself, but as everything is new and interesting, you take it all on with enthusiasm.

Then you kind of get over it and everything seems normal, and you can do everything without asking. You've eased into the swing of things and become quite content, but start to take things for granted.

Then, something major happens that might have upset you, and you go through a period of anxiety and major stress, wondering what you have just done with your life and why you didn't take the other offer instead. You begin to look else where, and start to lose concentration at your job.

A turn of events will happen that will temporarily bring you back on your feet, sort of like having a baby after a long initial period of marriage. You get promoted, or you get a new boss that seem to be better than the previous. You feel like you can give this another go. And the cycle starts again. Some people stay in the same job to the end of their working lives, others change jobs frequently in the hope to find something that they eventually want.

Yep. Sort of like relationship and marriages. So I guess the remedy for troubled or failing marriages might also work on a troubled or failing career?
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Is it really a bad job?

September 13th 2008 11:16
Grass is always greener on the other side, and almost no one is happy in their jobs. There are always something out there that trickles our fancy and the more we think about it the more we become to 'hate' our jobs.

But you don't realise what you've got until you've lost it.

You know, working in the travel industry had been a long term dream of mine. While having a completely comfortable corporate job I was edgy and I wanted to escape from all the commercialism and materialism to work in the travel industry where at least, I'd be working with something I actually love.

However never did I expect the long hours required as well as the risks involved. Airlines and travel providers are hard to deal with, and customers are always right, so you are kind of stuck in the middle with no way out.

Having assessed both side of things, I realised how luck I was to be in my last job. It was double the pay with half amount of the stress. Ok the hours were still long sometimes but at least I had the choice to being able to work from home when I needed the flexibility. The only thing was it was extremely materialistic and as I said, I'd rather be talking about travelling than the most updated Blackberries.

I suppose the moral of the story is to really weigh it out. Exactly what do you know of the other jobs before you decide to make the switch? And whether there are any roads backwards if you do need to get away again in case it's not as good as you thought? I am all for trying it all out, but sometimes, we need to make sure that no bridges are burnt so badly that cannot be repaired so you are stuck on one side with no way out.
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Learning to deal with rejections

September 6th 2008 08:40
I have applied for many, many different jobs. And fortunately enough, everytime I am up for a new job, I almost always find what I want. However this is not to say that I never get rejected. In fact, I probably have been rejected more times than I actually got the job, although I think I learned a lot more about the experience from the rejections which really helped me find my next job.

Learning how to learn from the rejections will improve your job searching skills than any classroom and forums can teach you. In the beginning I just thought it's because I am just not good enough, that there are others who had more experience in the field to compete with. So I just gave up. But as I grew a lot older I started asking those employers who end up rejecting me, why I didn't get the job. You'll find the answers sometimes doesn't come down to experience or education, and there may be other reasons that you can actually improve on


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